August 17th, 2010

Ch-ch-ch-changes…

So we’re part of the way through our second week in NZ, and there have been some big things happening…

Firstly, we’ve decided to cut our roadtrip short by quite a bit… we’re aiming to get to Wellington by this Sunday. Two reasons: the campervan we bought broke down the day after we bought it, and we had to spend more than we’d planned on getting the stupid thing fixed. Lesson learned: don’t buy a used vehicle from backpackers who need the money to buy their plane tickets home, even if they swear black and blue that the vehicle is in perfect order.

The second reason that we’re cutting our roadtrip short is that neither of us realised before now how important it is to us both to have a proper home, a base to operate from… living out of a van which contains all of our wordly belongings is more stressful than we had imagined it would be. We’ve found that we both desperately want a place to call our own, that we can make into a home. So we’re coming to Wellington to find jobs and a place to rent, and then next year we’ll do the trip we originally planned, taking the minimum amount of stuff with us and safe in the knowledge that we have a home to return to at the end of it.

We’re both really looking forwards to settling into Wellington, we’ve applied for some jobs and are looking for a place to rent. Do any of you guys have any advice as to what suburbs are good and which ones to avoid? We’re looking around the Hutt Valley area since we want to be a little way out of the city.

Oh and another big change… Matty and I got engaged! :) He proposed on Sunday at Arrowtown, a cute little place near Queenstown. We’d gone on a walk and had stopped for a rest at the top of a little mountain when he asked me to marry him. So yeah… we’re both really happy about that development! Not sure when we’ll get married, but probably sometime in the next two years. Pretty exciting stuff :D

So far we’ve visited Akaroa (a little French-style town about an hour and a half out of Christchurch, where the van broke down), which was a beautiful little place, very green! We went for a walk up one of the hills there and saw a mumma sheep with her little baby lamb that was only a day or two old, so cute! We also fed some ducks that lived near our camping site there and saw them have a massive duckfight over some bread. It was brutal, I didn’t even know that ducks fought like that.

After Akaroa we drove south along the East Coast to Timaru, and then inland to Pleasant Point, where we spent a night in a little park in the town. In the middle of the night a cat jumped onto the roof of the van and I woke up thinking that someone was trying to break in… fucking cat.

From Pleasant Point we drove to Lake Tekapo, which everyone had told me was amazing but which I actually didn’t like, because it rained the whole time we were there and everything was dead and grey and muddy. That day and night was the most difficult for me, I was really upset because I was homesick and missing my family and it was freezing cold and everything was wet… but I hear it’s beautiful in the spring. Lol…

After Tekapo we drove to Arrowtown, and stayed there two nights. It was my favourite place that we’d been at that point, and will always be special to me now :) It was so cold there at night that a big pond in the park was completely frozen over and we chucked big rocks into it to see how thick the ice was and it didn’t even break. We went for a walk along the riverbank on the second evening we were there and a big black dog came up to us and we threw sticks for him to catch. No idea whose dog he was, he had a collar on and a name tag and seemed to know his way around but we couldn’t see his owner anywhere.

The next morning we drove into Queenstown and wandered around the town for a few hours. It’s really pretty, very different from what I was expecting, I thought it would be bigger and more city-like but it was really nice. Touristy, but nice. Then we drove to Wanaka and stayed there last night.

Tonight we’re staying at a little hotel at Franz Josef… it’s been pouring rain all day so it’s nice to have a break from being in the van. We drove through so much beautiful mossy forest on the way here, and walked up to have a look at Fox Glacier on the way. Glaciers are so weird, they look surreal sitting right beside lush green forest.

We’re heading up towards Greymouth tomorrow, and then working our way up towards Nelson, and Abel Tasman National Park, before heading to Picton on the weekend sometime to catch the ferry across to Wellington. I’m not looking forwards to that trip… I hate being on a boat, and it’s a 3-hour trip that I’ve been told can get pretty rough if the weather is bad. But can’t wait to get to Wellington!

August 9th, 2010

We’re here!

Matty & I are in Christchurch! We arrived last night around midnight and spent the first night in Hotel So, in the city centre. The rooms are compact but not in a bad way – they’re cozy and really modern, the bed is really comfy and the shower is nice and hot! Plus we only paid just over $60 AUD per night for the room – bargain!

I slept badly last night, I think because of how emotional yesterday was, what with saying goodbye to family and to the country that has always been my home. I got about 4 hours sleep I think, and woke up this morning feeling kind of apprehensive about everything. It was 4C outside, cloudy, windy and raining on and off. Miserable weather, and everything outside was grey. For some reason I’d been expecting to be able to see mountains surrounding the city (I have no idea why I expected this, but I did), however since Christchurch is really flat, there were no mountains to be seen. And no beautiful green scenery. Just a grey concrete city. Not really what I had been imagining. Plus I got a bit stressed out by the whole no-plans-no-job-no-home thing. First time I’ve ever been in that situation!

But by mid-afternoon the clouds had cleared, and the rain and wind had stopped, and suddenly the city looked different. Prettier, more welcoming. And Matty and I had a big talk about everything, about the trip and our future plans and starting a new life here, which made me feel a lot better and helped get rid of a lot of my worries. He’s a good guy, that one. Definitely a keeper.

We got to see the sunset, and had a wander through Cathedral Square and the surrounding streets. We met up with the couple whose campervan we are planning to buy – and they turned out to be really lovely, and their campervan is exactly what we were hoping for. We found a little vegetarian/vegan restaurant and had awesome curry for dinner (the first time we’ve ever gone out to dinner in the whole 9 months that we’ve been together, since we’ve been living on such a strict budget to save for this trip!), then walked home to the hotel through the dusk.

We’re staying in the hotel again tonight, then picking up our campervan in the morning. So excited to start our roadtrip! The camper we’ve found is super awesome, and already has everything in it that we could possibly need. We were so lucky to find the perfect van for us. I’m really looking forwards to loading all our stuff into it and making it our little home for the next couple of months :)

Tomorrow we’re heading south to a little French-style village called Akaroa, where we’ll probably stay the night before heading further south and inland, towards Lake Tekapo. We’ve got a basic route mapped out but are pretty much just playing it by ear, seeing how things go and not setting any specific dates or timeframes to arrive in certain places. We both just want to relax and take our time :)

August 1st, 2010

Week In Review

Listening… to Flight Of The Conchords.

Reading… The Complete Residents Guide to New Zealand. It contains pretty much everything we need to know about how to start our new life in NZ with the least amount of hassle.

Watching… Carnivale, Season 1. SO SO GOOD. I’ve seen it once before but I’m watching it again with Matty, I’d have to say it’s one of my favourite TV shows for sure.

Buying… more dental work. Pretty exciting stuff I know! Haha, necessary though.

Wanting… to be on the plane to NZ already!! Aaaahhhh the wait is excruciating…

Trying… to comprehend the fact that I most likely won’t see Australia, and all my friends & family here, again until around this time next year.

Loving… the fact that our workmates held a farewell party for Matty and I on Friday night. I’ve never had anything like that when leaving a job before, it was awesome :D

Planning… all the last-minute details. ONE WEEK TO GO… holy shit.

Writing… lists of things to do before we leave, things to pack, things to sell on eBay…

Inspired by… the smell of summer on the way. I’m a little bit sad that I’m going to miss out on the Aussie summer, even though I whinge when the real heat hits.

July 29th, 2010

Fragrance Reviews: Versace ‘Crystal Noir’ & Yves Saint Laurent ‘La Nuit De L’Homme’

In the last couple of months I’ve been lucky enough to receive two different perfumes as presents: Versace Crystal Noir from my gorgeous boyfriend as a congratulatory gift for finishing uni, and Yves Saint Laurent La Nuit De L’Homme from my brother, as an early birthday present. I absolutely adore both fragrances, whenever I wear either I can’t stop sniffing my own wrists, haha!

Versace - Crystal Noir

This is a sweet, oriental perfume that smells good enough to eat. It has fruity notes with a slight hint of coconut, but avoids being a candy-sweet scent by having a warm base of amber, musk and sandalwood. It also smells slightly floral, but just enough – I generally can’t stand flowery perfumes, but I love this. It actually reminds me a little bit of Iced Vo-Vo biscuits – must be the combination of coconut and sweet fruit I think! Every guy I know who’s smelled this says it’s amazing (i.e. Matt, my brother & my dad, lol). Sweet enough to be delicious, but with enough spice and warmth to keep it out of the teenage-girl’s-perfume category.

Yves Saint Laurent - La Nuit De L’Homme

This is actually a men’s cologne, but I love the way it smells on me, so I’m not letting the fact that its name translates to “The Night of the Man” stop me from wearing it. It’s warm and spicy, and to me it smells like a really good cup of traditional chai tea. (Yes, I like perfumes that make me smell edible, hehe.) There are some sharper notes in there too though, which make it smell more interesting – I’m not sure if it’s some kind of citrus, but whatever it is, it smells great. I find it interesting how different the same perfume can smell on two different people – my brother and I both sprayed this on our wrists, and you would swear it wasn’t even the same fragrance. It smelled much sweeter and spicier on my skin, while on my brother it smelled more musky and woody.

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What are your favourite perfumes? Do you ever wear men’s cologne? Have you heard of any new fragrances that you want to try? Tell me all!

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July 28th, 2010

Pimping myself out again…

Just a quick post to let you all know that my photography website is up and running again!

Gemma Palmer Photography

I’ll be available for freelance work of all kinds around mid-October this year, after my holiday :D

Oh and I forgot to add – my photography business also has a page on Facebook – go here and click ‘like’ if you feel inclined :)

July 25th, 2010

Week In Review

Listening… to Esmerine.

Reading… How The Light Gets In by M.J. Hyland. Seriously, if you haven’t read this book yet, you should. It is amazing and beautifully written, and brought back vivid memories of my angsty teenage years.


Watching… The Office – the British version. Oh man, SO GOOD. I usually can’t stand Ricky Gervais, but he’s not too bad in this.

Buying… delicious macaroons from my local patisserie… I hadn’t had macaroons since I last went to Melbourne a couple of years ago, and then the patisserie decided to start making them! I was (and still am) super excited by this development. Really hoping there is somewhere in Wellington that makes them too!

Wanting… my tax return to be in my account. Stoked that I’m getting some back this year :)

Trying… to work out what to pack for NZ… one suitcase and maximum 20kg of luggage which has to contain pretty much everything that I need to start my new life there. There is some fairly serious culling of material possessions going on at the moment. The local op shops must love me.


Loving… The warmer weather we’ve been having lately… my appreciation of this is increased about a hundredfold because I know I’ll be in a much colder climate in two weeks’ time. (TWO WEEKS!!)

Planning… hotels to book, second-hand camper vans to view and choose between, places to visit… it’s all happening!


Writing… cover letters and applications for jobs I plan to apply for once we’re settled in Wellington.

Inspired by… Deep sleep and waking up feeling really, truly alive.

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What’s made your week this week?

July 21st, 2010

Hectic, man.

Just a quick post to let you all know that I’m still alive and well, just super super busy! Matty and I now have less than two and a half weeks until we fly to New Zealand, and so the organising & planning has ramped up.

I’ve been doing all kinds of not-so-exciting yet necessary stuff like opening new bank accounts, applying for credit cards (holy hell, SCARY STUFF as I have never had a credit card before and the idea kind of scares me, but it’s only to be used in the case of absolute emergency), visiting travel agents, debating whether or not to get travel insurance, searching online for second-hand camper vans, and writing packing lists. It’s all happening :)

Oh and today I got my Statement of Completion for my degree! So I now have concrete proof that I have a Bachelor of Arts with a major in Creative Writing and a minor in Public Relations. Feels good :)

Hope you guys are all happy & well!

July 14th, 2010

Let the right ones in…

If you only know me online, you might not expect that in real life I’m not always as confident and surely-spoken as I am on here. I’m often shy and socially awkward, especially with people who don’t know me well. Even my workmates, who I’ve worked with for a year now, don’t know me very well… because I don’t let them. I’m pretty sure that most of them think I’m quiet, mildly depressed, and don’t have much of a sense of humour. And quite possibly that I’m stuck up, because I don’t talk a lot at work, and some people interpret that as being snobby.

My boyfriend often tells me that if I’d only let people get to know me, that I’d have a lot more friends. But it’s something I find really difficult… letting people in. I’m wary in other people’s company, constantly on my guard, and a lot of the time I’m not even sure why. However, I do know that the fear of not being accepted by others plays a big part. Which, when I stop to think about it, is kind of stupid… people would probably respond a lot more positively towards me if I let down my guard and was open and friendly towards them. But aaarrghhh… it’s so hard! And scary!

It’s one of the reasons that I love blogging, and the blogging community, so much. I find it a lot easier to express myself through writing, and I guess I feel safer communicating like this, from behind a screen. But I want more. I want real-life friends, I want a social life… and the only way I’m going to get that is to learn to stop being afraid of people. And to stop being so worried about what others think of me. It’s weird… I don’t really care what people think about my physical appearance – tattoos, piercings, dreads – but when it comes to my personality, I’m always so scared of people judging me.

So that is my biggest goal for when I move to Wellington – I want to face this fear and overcome it. I want to let people in, let them see me for who I really am. I want to stop holding everyone at arm’s length.

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What do you guys think about this kind of thing? Do any of you feel anything like this, or have you at any time? How do you deal with it?

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July 12th, 2010

Finally…

I received my uni results today… and found out that I passed all my subjects! Better than passed, actually – distinctions for two subjects and a credit for the other one. So I’m pretty stoked with that.

But what makes it all the more awesome is that this means I’ve completed my degree! Finally, after 3 and a half years, I can now say I hold a Bachelor of Arts with a major in Creative Writing and a minor in Public Relations :) So proud that I stuck with it and made it through, especially since this was my third attempt at a uni degree (dropped out of the first two… they weren’t right for me).

So I’ve decided that I want to buy myself something special to mark the occasion,  a present to myself for one of the biggest achievements of my life so far. I’m thinking an awesome piece of silver jewellery from one of my favourite Etsy stores. But I’m having trouble deciding what to get. These are some of the stores I’m looking at:

BloodMilk

billyblue22

missyindustry

Can you guys give me any suggestions for other stores, on Etsy or otherwise, where I might find the perfect piece? I want something unique and a little bit strange… I’m looking at stuff like silver bird & animal skull pendants, circus freakshow memorabilia jewellery, victorian mourning jewellery… things like that.

Any ideas? Please let me know!

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July 11th, 2010

Week In Review

It’s been almost a week since I’ve blogged! Damn, time is flying…

Listening… to The Mercury Program.
Reading… Change Your Thinking by Sarah Edelman, trying to learn how to handle my anxiety better… I’m sick of worrying about every little thing all the time.
Watching… Black Books. Dylan Moran + Bill Bailey = AWESOMENESS.


Buying… birthday presents for Matty, he turned 26 on Friday :) I got him some Davidoff Adventure cologne and the fifth Harry Potter book, as he’s started reading the series and is in love with it. I need to read the books again… it’s been a while.
Wanting… to get my group certificate from work so I can lodge my tax return and get money! Haha.
Trying… to organise everything that needs to be done before we leave for NZ… I think I’m pretty much on track.
Loving… Spending time with my Mum. I packed up the majority of my belongings and took them up to her place last week, to put into storage. We spent the day together and she made me pikelets for breakfast and pumpkin soup for lunch… gotta love that! I’m really going to miss her. And her cooking :P


Planning… places to visit on our road trip around NZ!
Writing… just this blog :)
Inspired by… The fact that it’s only FOUR WEEKS until we fly to NZ! Aaaahhh!!]

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How has your week been, sexyface?

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